Look, it’s the new year and 2017 is well underway now! That said, it’s time for you to step your casual dating game up for sure! The world of casual dating online has grown so much in recent years that it can be a little scary and confusing trying it for the first time. You not only have to worry about the market being saturated with bogus sites, you also have to worry about doing the right thing to keep your potential sex partner on the line. Here is a list of do’s and don’t when it comes to having an online encounter that turns sexual.
Casual Dating Website Do’s and Don’ts For The New Year
DO take it slow depending on her reaction. If you are talking to multiple women online, it’s just a matter time before at least one of them leads to sex. Your advances should be reactionary. You should escalate the flirting and, as long as they are responding well, you should continue to escalate. If you ever sense that she is hesitating or not feeling your advances, then you should back off. If she is accepting, you should still escalate your flirting rather slowly. Patience is a virtue and will only serve you well in the long run. I should also mention that it’s best if you do chat with her live on cam at some point!
DON’T rush her. If you start pushing for sex or a face to face meeting too early, you could hurt your chances of sealing the deal. Rushing shows a lack of confidence, a lack of class and a lack of compassion and respect for your potential mate. Women don’t want to feel pressure when it comes to casual dating. The ultimate situation would involve you getting together and her thinking that it’s her idea.
DO be careful about dating site scams. If you join a hookup site that turns out to be a scam, you will waste a lot of time and money and get no results. Research a site before you join. Look up online and customer reviews. Even if a site has good reviews, use caution and watch for warning signs like a flood of messages from gorgeous women before you even upload a picture. Read their Terms and Conditions and be sure that you are not joining a site that hides their scamming practices in the fine print. Many of them do.
DON’T join a dating site without reading the fine print or doing research. Many dating site scams involve charging you a high membership fee and many of them will add secret charges on top of that. If you don’t read about these sites thoroughly, you could end up with hundreds of dollars worth of charges. These charges typically cannot be reversed and they continue to be withdrawn from your account until you cancel. These sites just exist to rip you off. A little caution could save you a lot of money and heartache.
Much of your online hookup success depends on caution and patience. If you use both, you will have a more fulfilling experience and your chances of finding no strings attached sex online will increase. It’s not that complicated. A little common sense goes a long way in the world of casual dating on the Internet.