Sex by State – Who Has The Most Flings?

Some people need facts and that’s where I come in! If you’re looking for sex facts, then is your resource. Seriously, we spent a full week researching this information so that you know where to plan your next vacation. I’m going to tell you right now, the number one result might shock you. If you’re into hooking up with randoms you meet online, then consider this a great resource and worth sharing if you have friends that like to shack up casually on the regular.

casual sex facts by state

Casual Flings – Best Sex Facts By State

Here’s what I’ve covered here below:

  • Top 20 states where the most casual sex occurs
  • Top 10 states with high STD rates
  • The type of sex people like to have by state
  • Top 5 states that have the safest sex

No more wasting time here, let’s get down to business.

Casual Sex By State

Casual sex is awesome. That doesn’t really need to be stated to anyone with working privates, but sometimes it’s nice to remind yourself of something so obvious. The question is, “Where do you have to go to get it?” Well, here’s a handy list of the top twenty states when it comes to hookups. You’ll be happy to know that I’ve taken the guessing work out of it. If you want to meet someone and have a Fling, then you’re going to want to check out the sites listed towards the bottom of the list. Number one WILL shock you, I’m sure of it.

20. Missouri
19. Arizona
18. Louisiana
17. Kansas
16. Arkansas
15. West Virginia
14. North Dakota
13. Maine
12. Nebraska
11. Colorado
10. New Mexico
9. Oklahoma
8. Wyoming
7. Montana
6. Nevada
5. Alaska
4. Idaho
3. Vermont
2. Washington
1. Oregon

Facts About Oregon

I had to share the Oregon Trail image here in honor of this. It’s truly priceless!

What About One Night Stands?

According to, these are the states with the most members looking for, and finding, one night stands. If you like little action without the added hassle of a relationship, maybe it’s time to think about relocating.

Naturally, with all of this casual banging, you’re going to run into some negative side effects. In the interests of arming you with as much information as possible, here are the top ten states with the most cases of STDs. This is of course according to some research that we gathered here.

10. Illinois
9. Alabama
8. Oklahoma
7. New York
6. California
5. South Carolina
4. Mississippi
3. Georgia
2. North Carolina
1. Louisiana

Louisiana Sign

It would seem that people from both of the Carolinas just hate to use condoms. The number one spot should come as no surprise since the state is best known for trading beads for naked tits.
So we know where people are doing it, but how are they doing it? It’s not fun to talk about what happens between the sheets unless you can draw a mental picture of exactly how it’s happening.

Fave Sex Positions

According to surveys conducted by Ask Men, the overarching favored sex position in the United States is a woman on top. Twenty-nine states log it as their most searched position and for good reason: the man can be lazy and have all the work done for him. Nice job, America!

Girl riding on top

Coming in second with eighteen states is doggy style. Although it’s a lot of fun, it’s also notorious for being the position that brings men to completion the fastest. If you’re looking for a state with a lot of unsatisfied women, maybe give one of these a shot.

New Jersey and Massachusetts make facesitting number three. This clearly isn’t just another example of the man being lazy since he’s doing most of the work. Maybe people from these two states need to breathe less than anyone else.

Coming in the last two spots (pun absolutely intended) are 69 and criss-cross, with Indiana and Missouri making them relevant respectively. It’s always the quiet ones that you least expect to be the freakiest.

cat's not impressed

Mr. Kitty isn’t impressed. He say’s you’re doing it wrong.

Safest Sex States

Finally, if you want to play it clean, a recent study counted down the states with the safest sex. I guess if you’re going to lose your virginity, then these are the best states to do it in. Whatever you do, don’t do it during a drunken bender on spring break trip!

5. New Jersey
4. Hawaii
3. New Hampshire
2. Maine
1. Vermont

Vermont Safe Sex Facts

It would seem that if you want to keep your genitals clean, you should live in the northeast. It must be all those fine colleges up there that keep people smart enough to use protection versus raw dogging it. You learn something new every day!

Bonus facts for reading this whole article: 

If you’re on the hunt for a sex partner, then you need to know which platforms work and which don’t. I’ll give you a hint, stay far away from and, they’re the worst.